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Journalist: Candiekisses
Status: Public
Entries: 4 (Private: 0)
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Start Date: 06-17-2005
Last Updated: 10-01-2005
Views: 370
Description: my b-daugther
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loss for words
Date Posted: 06-17-2005 at 10:11 AM
Well, from advice from such a sweet & dear freind I met here on the forum.I am starting my own journal about my journey as a b-mom,,,,very scary!I was 17 when I placed my sec daughter with her new mommy & daddy,,,something that I did-not want to do at all,but already having a 2 yr old lil girl, my mom gave me no choice in the matter..that's a whole other story I'll share / you someday!anywho! I have a wonderful family whom I love so very dearly..oh yeah I married my b-daughters father soon after the adoption...I truly believe that I left home to get away from my mom...but today I am happily married to him still, we have 3 other beautiful children our oldest daughter she's 23 soon to be 24,and two wonderful sons..whom I charish to death,17 & 12,this could play a huge role on my b-child's emotions,belive me I have thought about this for years.. well we were reunited w/ our b-daughter back in Dec of last year. she's now almost 22 went VERY well of course it was emotional but to me from what I've learned that's just the way it is,(what a ride) WOW! well right before m's-day (I was sooooooo looking forward to this mothers day) my first one w/ all of my babies together....my kids bought me my first mothers ring with all four b-stones..I was thrilled,but to my suprise my b-daughter decided that the timing wasn't good & I NEVER heard from her on mother's day or since then..her a-mom wrote me..saying"she is trying to get thru her SR. year of collage & that I need to give her the time & space that she needs.,and tho the reunion was nice doesn't mean there will be an ongoing relationship @ this time",,,thru me for a loop.. I never understood why my b-daughter couldn't of told me this herself...hummmmm???so for now I have set my butterfly free once more.if it returns it was meant to be,,,my heart just aches knowing that she looks just like me and at this time wants nothing to do w/ me or her family she has however talked a lil w/ her older sister...but not in a while..so sad until the next time...thanks for the ear.

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just sitting around thinking
Date Posted: 06-18-2005 at 10:26 AM
well today's SAT. hope everyone is enjoying their weekend...you know I am just baffled about something....how in the world can a b-mom or b-child after having the chance to meet you ,want nothing to do w/ you??? just a thought that keeps running thru my mind. WHAT THE HECK?! We're just normal people, I just don't undersatnd it....God this whole thing makes no sence at all....we are all scared to death, but we have to atleast give it a chance....I think it takes a VERY selfish person to not give it a chance...God forbid they may hurt someones feelings,,,
heck we all have loved ones involved,but I would't turn you away...
until the next time.

not doing much
Date Posted: 06-20-2005 at 02:22 PM
just sitting around today doing a lil cleaning,,,still no word from my b-daughter....maybe she'll come around one day...todays been a lazy day for me...getting ready to go to church we have revival all week..oh did I mention our 23 yr old is having our sec grandchild,,,so excited...they live in Fl,,her hubby is a wild life officer there in bervard county. she works in a dr's office and just put her notice in to stay home..so we have a lot happening this upcoming year.I just wished my other daughter could or would be here...til the next time.

Finally our day has come!
Date Posted: 10-01-2005 at 10:17 PM
Hello everyone…
It’s been a long time, I haven’t been on in sooooo long,
I want to share w/ you ,our great happiness,
I believe the last time I wrote, Kari(my b- daughter)
Told me that she just need some time & space..
And I did what she asked,,,( it was sooooooooooooooo vey hard to do that)
But I had to respect what she asked…
Any whoooooooo
I went to Fl on Sept.6th 05.….( to see my oldest daugther..the one who is have my sec grand child…)IT’S A BOY…….DUE JAN 3RD 06.
And I thought that I would drop Kari an e-mail to say hi…and to let her know that I’ll be there,,,
Thinking I would get no response from her. After months of not hearing from her,
To my surprise…she called my daughter (Kari’s b-sister) to set up a time to meet///I was sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo happy////
We had a wonderful time…just the three of us,,,our first girls night out.
Kari called me Monday.& we talked I was so thrilled that she made the call,
we are well on our way..to a great & blessed relationship/friendship!
The moral of this story is just be patient,,,,good things really do happen to those who will wait!

This is dedicated: to all b-moms & a-children searching for your loved ones or to those who
Have found them, but are in the waiting mode…..

Love Candie..God Bless <><

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