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Part of: Elissa1111's Journal 2/01/05 |
Date Posted: 02-01-2005 at 11:42 AM Comments(0) |
| I don't have that much to say today. I feel bad for my little one he's running a fever and has 4 teeth coming in at once. That has to hurt. D is getting into everything and getting cuts and brusies all over him. The boy has no fear......I hope he'll grow out of it. Our SW changed for B and she's seems to not take any crap. I like that. She told me it was up to the bparents to get in touch with her for the visit, now that it is an adoptive placement. I still can't believe that we might have our 2 boys. I also wonder if B will notice that he's not seeing his parents anymore. Not that at 8 months he really understands who they are and I don't know how much of a bond he can get with them when on average he only sees them once a month for 2 hours. A part of me feels like I'm stealing a kid. It is hard to explain, the stealing feeling, it's like the bparents didn't really decide to place their child for adoption the state did. I am aware that if they had wanted the child back they would have fought for that child. I think I would love as a foster parent to see what that is like. To see a bparent working to get their child back, maybe one day. Our county adoption worker called and said that things are moving along just fine for D. The SW's are trying to see if they can get both boys adopted on the same day. I'm not sure if I want that or not. I think I would like both of them to have their own special day of becoming members of our family, I'm sure it's more me wanting them to have their own day. If it so happens to be the same day that just means a bigger celebration. I'll take that. My husband and I are planning a trip for April and it will just be us. I don't want to leave the boys but I also know that if we don't start now then we'll never get away with just us. Plus then the boys get to stay with Grandma & Grandpa. I love the waiting part of this. I just want it to be May 7 so we know for sure with D. |
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